Sex feels different for everyone. When people are sexually aroused, are sure they want to have sex and partners communicate clearly, it usually feels good. Some people find using a lubricant can help.
Sex can hurt if people have sex before they are ready: not physically ready, like they are in early puberty, or if they are not sexually aroused; or not emotionally ready like if they are feeling embarrassed, pressured or scared. Having sex when someone’s not ready is not healthy. If sex hurts, it’s important to talk to a health care provider.